tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709125198026878835.post4591875436773319658..comments2024-02-19T01:17:10.832-05:00Comments on Him+17: A hole in the shape of a childMichael Downshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06638035877115413915noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709125198026878835.post-62463577194338986422011-08-27T23:26:15.855-04:002011-08-27T23:26:15.855-04:00I'm childless. The pain is unbearable when my ...I'm childless. The pain is unbearable when my husband spends most of his time with his kids (and now grandkids) . We've been together 13 years. The ex lives up the road. I can't even see the newest grandchild. My spouse goes up to the ex"s to visit.<br />I'm always on the outside . After on this time, his kids still play mind games. I'm not happy. I love him sooo much but we don't communicate. I told him a few times I should just leave, he's on computer for hours every night. I'm bored, sad, lonely. He begs me not to go and then he goes back to his computer. I don't know why he wants me here. Being childless has hurt out marriage 100%.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2709125198026878835.post-12259020043153779632011-08-21T13:33:32.319-04:002011-08-21T13:33:32.319-04:00I have a child-shaped hole in my life as well. We ...I have a child-shaped hole in my life as well. We all have holes of some sort and we come to childlessness in many different ways. Let's keep the discussion going. <br /><br />Sue Fagalde Lick<br />http://www.childlessbymarriage.blogspot.comSue Fagalde Lickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14740379397806418651noreply@blogger.com